Category: for women
until we fall asleep
When I talk to other moms, the conversation inevitably makes its way toward sleep: how is your sleep? Are you sleeping through the night? We sleep-trained Noah when he was 6 months and had a great run of 12 hour nights. But it seems like […]
mothering two: a list of skills acquired
they say motherhood changes you. I agree and yet, the change, I would argue, is almost imperceptible. Growing up I felt like being a mom carried a weightiness to it – something you endeavor to do only once you have reached a certain maturity. Yet, […]
pregnancy and labor: resources and reflections [part 3]
I have just finished picking up chewed up watermelon pieces strewn around Noah’s high chair, after putting Noah down for his 2nd and last nap of the day. It is our last day in Tawas, Michigan, and Noah has certainly gotten his fill of sun, […]
pregnancy and labor: resources and reflections [part 2]
This is part 2 of a 3-part series on pregnancy and labor, specifically a non-medicated one since that was the route I chose. Part 1 covered the scientific evidence around naturopathic recommendations given by midwives on what to do during pregnancy, while Part 2 is […]
pregnancy and labor: resources and reflections [part 1]
For those who were wondering why my previous post on women in ministry was password-protected, I initially wrote down some unfiltered thoughts to give to someone at church who had asked for my opinion, and didn’t know if I should make it public just yet. […]
Women in ministry: my personal perspective
The topic of a woman’s place in marriage and church is one that is of both intellectual and personal interest to me. I wrote the first portion of this after reading the Counterpoints book, “Two views on women in ministry“, which included both complementarian and […]
the other side of the world
On July 10, 2023 at 1:44 p.m., I landed on the other side of the world. All I heard was, “Roll over to Barbara!” as my heavy, aching body collapsed into our doula who had just seconds before had her face right in front of mine, […]
39 weeks pregnant
I initially started blogging from reading various mom-blogs filled with homeschooling tips and Pinterest-worthy recipes. It seems like a large percentage of the blogosphere is occupied by mom-bloggers. And recently it has come to my attention that I am soon becoming one of them (gasp). […]
my singleness manifesto
It’s been a slow season of writing for me. My past few months have not been my normal (have they been anyone’s really?), and I’m still getting back into a rhythm. But, this past weekend, during a call with one of my girlfriends, we started […]
if you bake brownies [on STEM, women and the daily grind of lab work]
I was over at the Pike’s last Saturday night, the missionary family from Florida that moved here a couple months ago. The husband and teenage son were out for soccer and it was just the wife and daughter who would be home, so of course […]



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