Category: for women

pregnancy and labor: resources and reflections [part 2]

pregnancy and labor: resources and reflections [part 2]

I had always been terrified of giving birth. As someone who shrieked when my Dad dabbed my knee scrape with a cotton pad soaked in rubbing alcohol, I could not even imagine what giving birth would feel like. “What was the pain like?” I would […]

pregnancy and labor: resources and reflections [part 1]

pregnancy and labor: resources and reflections [part 1]

For those who were wondering why my previous post on women in ministry was password-protected, I initially wrote down some unfiltered thoughts to give to someone at church who had asked for my opinion, and didn’t know if I should make it public just yet. […]

Women in ministry: my personal perspective

Women in ministry: my personal perspective

The topic of a woman’s place in marriage and church is one that is of both intellectual and personal interest to me. I wrote the first portion of this after reading the Counterpoints book, “Two views on women in ministry“, which included both complementarian and […]

the other side of the world

the other side of the world

On July 10, 2023 at 1:44 p.m., I landed on the other side of the world. All I heard was, “Roll over to Barbara!” as my heavy, aching body collapsed into our doula who had just seconds before had her face right in front of mine, […]

39 weeks pregnant

39 weeks pregnant

I initially started blogging from reading various mom-blogs filled with homeschooling tips and Pinterest-worthy recipes. It seems like a large percentage of the blogosphere is occupied by mom-bloggers. And recently it has come to my attention that I am soon becoming one of them (gasp). […]

my singleness manifesto

my singleness manifesto

It’s been a slow season of writing for me. My past few months have not been my normal (have they been anyone’s really?), and I’m still getting back into a rhythm. But, this past weekend, during a call with one of my girlfriends, we started […]

if you bake brownies [on STEM, women and the daily grind of lab work]

if you bake brownies [on STEM, women and the daily grind of lab work]

I was over at the Pike’s last Saturday night, the missionary family from Florida that moved here a couple months ago. The husband and teenage son were out for soccer and it was just the wife and daughter who would be home, so of course […]

#micah6.8 part 3: the beauty we create

#micah6.8 part 3: the beauty we create

Read the preceding posts in the Micah6.8 series here: Part 1: never productive enough, Part 2: the food we eat. It was hard for me to write this post. Ironically, it had to do with wanting to make it beautiful, perfect, have things fit together […]

what my 23y self said to my 16y self at the checkout counter

what my 23y self said to my 16y self at the checkout counter

So, I chanced upon this piece when I was doing some thinking/research about the topic of beauty for my next post.  It was written 3 years ago as a letter to my self 10 years ago. So in a way, it is a flashback to […]

singleness, my portion today

singleness, my portion today

I really didn’t want to write this post. I had opened a document with my musings on the issue on December 30 of last year, but since then, the post had still not been written. Neither had I written anything else substantial since, unless you […]